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Why Founders Misdiagnose Their Real Problem
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January 10, 2026
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There’s a moment in almost every startup where the founder becomes very confident about the wrong thing.
They say:
“We need to raise.”
“We need distribution.”
“We need growth.”
“We need better marketing.”
Paul Graham has been gently calling this out for years.
Not by shaming founders but by pointing out a pattern that shows up again and again:
founders are usually solving the wrong problem first.
The Fundraising Mirage
Paul has written some version of this dozens of times:
If your startup is struggling, fundraising is rarely the fix.
And yet it’s the first lever founders reach for.
Why?
Because fundraising feels concrete.
It has steps.
It has milestones.
It has external validation.
More importantly, it avoids a much harder question:
Does anyone actually want this?
Raising money doesn’t answer that question.
It postpones it.
Growth Is Often a Distraction, Not a Goal
Another classic misdiagnosis: growth.
Founders look at flat usage and conclude they need more users.
Paul’s essays suggest the opposite:
If growth is hard, the product usually isn’t compelling enough yet.
Adding traffic to something people don’t love doesn’t fix the core issue. It just makes it louder.
This is why Paul keeps returning to the same advice in different forms:
Talk to users.
Build something they want.
Fix the part that hurts.
Everything else is downstream.
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The Question Founders Ask Too Early
Founders are very good at asking sophisticated questions too soon.
What’s our go-to-market strategy?
How do we scale this?
What’s the TAM?
Should we pivot?
There is the argument that these are late-stage questions.
Early-stage questions are much simpler and much harder to answer honestly:
Why don’t people care yet?
What part is confusing?
Where do users hesitate?
What are we avoiding touching?
These questions don’t have neat answers.
They don’t fit cleanly into spreadsheets.
And they force you to confront uncomfortable truths.
Which is why they get delayed.
When Intelligence Becomes a Liability
One of Paul Graham’s more subtle observations is that smart founders can talk themselves out of reality.
They can construct elegant explanations.
They can justify slow progress.
They can build narratives that sound rational but protect ego.
The danger isn’t ignorance.
It’s plausible-sounding self-deception.
This is why two founders can look at the same startup and see different problems and why the one willing to say “our product just isn’t there yet” usually wins.
Product vs. Fundraising Confusion
Paul often implies something uncomfortable:
If investors aren’t excited, the problem is rarely the story.
It’s the substance.
When founders misdiagnose the issue, they optimize everything around the product:
Decks, messaging, positioning, outreach.
But the core doesn’t move.
This is exactly why tools like NTE Pro exist, not to hand out tactics, but to expose patterns. When you look across thousands of startup ideas and outcomes, the same failure mode appears again and again: founders fixing optics instead of fundamentals.
The Real Cost of Misdiagnosis
The most dangerous part isn’t failure.
It’s time.
Founders don’t usually lose years by being lazy.
They lose years by working very hard on the wrong problem.
Paul even warns that “fake progress” is more dangerous than doing nothing because it bypasses internal alarm bells.
It feels like work.
It looks like motion.
But nothing compounds.
This is why WhoFiled can be such a powerful reality check. When you look at what companies are actually raising for and when you start to see the difference between momentum and noise, between signal and story.
The Zero-to-One Moment
This is where NTE Zero to One conversations usually get interesting.
Not when founders ask:
“What should I do next?”
But when they pause and say:
“I think I’ve been fixing the wrong thing.”
That moment doesn’t feel like progress.
It feels like stepping backward.
Paul Graham would say that’s the moment real progress begins.
Correct diagnosis is forward motion even if it’s uncomfortable.
A Better Diagnostic Question
Instead of asking:
“What lever should we pull?”
Paul’s essays point to a sharper question:
“If this worked perfectly, what would have to be true?”
That question cuts through distraction.
It exposes whether the issue is value, clarity, or desire and not distribution, not funding, not scale.
And it usually changes what the founder works on the very next day.
Why This One Tends to Spark Replies
This topic lands because most founders already know the answer.
They just haven’t said it out loud yet.
Paul Graham doesn’t give comfort.
He gives permission - permission to stop lying to yourself.
And in startups, honesty is often the scarcest resource.
One Last Thought
Founders don’t fail because they lack effort.
They fail because they work relentlessly on the wrong problem for too long.
The real gift here isn’t advice.
It’s diagnosis.
And once you see the real problem clearly, everything else like ideas, execution, speed will finally starts to line up.
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