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• The Couples Therapist Roundtable

Your soulmate walks past you

The One Liner

Meet people you already cross paths with

The 140 character tweet (or X) version

A dating app that matches you with people you already pass in real life - same coffee shop, gym, commute. Real overlap > random swipes.

The Longer Story Version

The Problem

Dating apps feel synthetic.

Infinite swipes. Zero context.
You match with someone 12 miles away and never cross paths.

There’s no shared world. No gravity. No “oh that’s why this makes sense.”

And swipe culture broke something. It optimized for volume, not proximity. For novelty, not familiarity. For dopamine, not depth.

Meanwhile, your actual life is happening offline.

Same coffee shop every morning.
Same gym at 6:30pm.
Same coworking space.
Same Tuesday commute.

There are probably 10 people you’ve organically overlapped with 20+ times… and you have no idea.

The Solution

Match people who already overlap in real life.

Not exact location tracking. Not creepy GPS stalking.

Pattern recognition.

“You both visit Bluestone Lane 3x/week.”
“You’ve overlapped 5 times this month.”
“Same Pilates studio. Different classes.”

The more real-world overlap, the stronger the match.

Romance powered by shared routines.

Algorithmic serendipity.

It’s not “who looks hot in a vacuum.”
It’s “who is already living in my orbit.”

It turns proximity into chemistry.

How We’d Build It

Phase 1 — Prove It (Speed > Perfection)

Goal: Prove people want proximity-based matches.

• Start hyper-local. One dense neighborhood in one city.

• Opt-in location zones (coffee shops, gyms, coworking spaces) instead of raw GPS trails.

• Use a vibe-coded MVP in Lovable or FlutterFlow to ship fast.

• Use background location pings + safe geofencing (via Radar or Foursquare Places API).

• Match based on repeated overlaps, not one-offs.

• Private beta with 200–500 users in a single area.

GTM:
Partner with 3–5 venues (gym, café, coworking).
Flyers + QR codes.
“Find the people you already pass every day.”

We’re not scaling yet. We’re proving emotional pull.

Phase 2 — Make It Magnetic

Goal: Increase density and habit.

• Add match strength score based on overlap frequency + time similarity.

• Add “Shared Patterns” cards instead of full location history.

• Use Liveblocks or Supabase Realtime to create subtle “someone overlapped with you today” nudges.

• Build lightweight behavioral insights with a tool like Mixpanel or PostHog to see what overlap types convert.

GTM:
Campus rollout or neighborhood-by-neighborhood launch.
Ambassador program in dense micro-communities.
Position it as anti-swipe, pro-serendipity.

Not “another dating app.”

“What if your soulmate is someone you already pass every Tuesday?”

Phase 3 — Scale the Network Effect

Goal: Turn density into defensibility.

• Improve overlap modeling using clustering tools like H3 (Uber’s geospatial indexing system).

• Optimize matching via interest + movement correlation.

• Add venue partnerships (sponsored visibility boosts inside specific zones).

• Add premium: boost your visibility within your existing orbit.

GTM:
City launches like playbooks.
Waitlists by neighborhood.
Influencer seeding in hyper-dense cities.

Why It Needs to Exist

Swipe fatigue is real.

People want meet-cute energy again.
They want context.
They want shared worlds.

Privacy tech is mature. Background services are normalized. People already trade location data for convenience every day.

The real unlock isn’t more profiles.

It’s density + proximity.

And if this works, it doesn’t just feel like another app.

It feels inevitable.

Not “who should I swipe on tonight?”

But:

“Who’s already in my life that I just haven’t met yet?”

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The Couples Therapist Roundtable:
“Are We Outsourcing Chemistry?”

Three therapists sit down. No pitch deck. Just vibes.

Therapist #1: “Shared routine absolutely builds compatibility. Same gym. Same coffee shop. Same commute. That’s not random. That’s lifestyle alignment. Long-term couples thrive on rhythm.”

Therapist #2: “Or it’s just manufactured familiarity. You mistake exposure for intimacy. The ‘mere exposure effect’ is real. Just because you see someone every Tuesday doesn’t mean you’re emotionally compatible.”

Therapist #3: “But let’s compare this to swipe culture. Infinite options. Zero context. That’s dopamine roulette. At least proximity creates narrative. There’s a shared world.”

Now it gets interesting.

Is this enhancing chemistry… or outsourcing it?

On one hand, this feels healthier. It reduces stranger danger. It anchors connection in reality. You’re not meeting someone from another dimension, you’re meeting someone already in your orbit.

On the other hand, are we algorithmically simulating a meet-cute? If the app tells you, “You’ve overlapped five times this month,” does that create romance… or bias it?

Repeated physical overlap can increase attachment. But is that organic… or nudged?

And here’s the deeper question:

Is “algorithmic serendipity” psychologically different from bumping into someone naturally?

If the algorithm surfaces the opportunity, but the spark is still human… is that outsourcing chemistry? Or just increasing the odds of it?

Because maybe the real insight is this:

Chemistry isn’t random.

It’s patterned.

And this just maps the pattern.

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